I cannot believe this! My ex who left me not too long ago picked me up in a chat room. I knew he was always hanging around there so I tried my luck. He is chasing me now (online) not knowing I am the ex wife. I am so desperate to have him back, so I tried to romance him all over again through chatting and emails. He seems to be falling for it and tries to talk to me all the time declaring his feelings.
Should I continue this charade? Will he be completely mad when he finds out its me all along (but he was the one who approached me first and chased me online)? Is this the right way to win him back becos I am wooing him all over like we used to when we first met many years ago.
Please advice me.
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This is going to bite you in the azz if you don’t stop it. He will be FURIOUS if he finds out!
let it go itll be chaos
yes he is going to be mad if you carry on like this. It may ne fun for you but he is going to feel a fool (and no man reacts well to that!)
why don’t you get in touch with him in real life and see how he is. you will know how he really feels about you then
An old song by Rupert Holmes "Escape"
I was tired of my lady, we’d been together too long.
Like a worn-out recording, of a favorite song.
So while she lay there sleeping, I read the paper in bed.
And in the personals column, there was this letter I read:
"If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
If you’re not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
I’m the lady you’ve looked for, write to me, and escape."
I didn’t think about my lady, I know that sounds kind of mean.
But me and my old lady, had fallen into the same old dull routine.
So I wrote to the paper, took out a personal ad.
And though I’m nobody’s poet, I thought it wasn’t half-bad.
"Yes, I like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
I’m not much into health food, I am into champagne.
I’ve got to meet you by tomorrow noon, and cut through all this red tape.
At a bar called O’Malley’s, where we’ll plan our escape."
So I waited with high hopes, then she walked in the place.
I knew her smile in an instant, I knew the curve of her face.
It was my own lovely lady, and she said, "Oh, it’s you."
And we laughed for a moment, and I said, "I never knew"..
"That you liked Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
And the feel of the ocean, and the taste of champagne.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
You’re the love that I’ve looked for, come with me, and escape."
"If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
If you’re not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
You’re the love that I’ve looked for, come with me, and escape."
good call Misty…I was thinking the same thing…may be it will work?
No it isn’t the right way to win him back. You are currently living a lie. How’s that going to work for you? Eventually you’ll have to tell him.
If I were in your place, I would go for it. How many ex-wives would get this opportunity? Your marriage is doomed anyway cos he has already left, so whats to lose? Think of all the wonderful things you have always wanted to tell him. Romance him all over again, and make him feel good.
Good luck.
Arrange a date with him on the chat room, what have you got to lose. Dress like a vamp for it hun. BTW, Mistys post is brill.
wow . what luck ? or 1. was u looking for him.2. who broke up who [sound like he did] 3.why would you went back. 4.he don’t know it u yes 5. yes he will be mad. 6.hes over you 7.you Sound like your stuck into him 8.look in to your self 9.if u get back 2gather u will have the same problem that have not change10.don’t back tract unless he in2 you and know it you for real stop playing games
Go ahead. Have fun but don’t lie to him.
Try contacting him in real life without letting him know what’s going on. Lead a double life.
yes, but how many other women is he chasing?? I suppose this could either work out tremendously or backfire tremendously.
Why don’t you suggest getting together for a drink or something….if he says he needs to see a picture…..just tell him that you GUARANTEE
he will be pleasantly suprised at your looks.
Make sure you meet in a public place…….Make sure you wait until HE is there first…..you don’t want him spotting you first and maybe bolting….so pick a restaurant……walk over to him in a non chalant way………say HI…..how are you…..what the heck are you doing here??? Oh, I’m just waiting for a friend he might say…..WHAT a coincidence you say…..only I was hoping we could be a LOT more than friends, if you get my meaning….as you slide into the table beside him..
why did you get a divorce from the first place
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Wow, this is a very sad story. I cannot believe that you would be this devious.
STOP THAT
Oh dear, this is so sick. You will not get him back this way – he will only see you as a liar. Relationships are built on trust and this is not a good way to earn his.
He left you and does not want to be with you. That’s sad and hurtful but you will survive it and get over it. Give yourself some time and go talk to someone – yes, a counsellor.
In the mean time, don’t stalk your ex in chat rooms.