I’ve been broken up from my ex since Jan 2nd. We were living dating for 4 years. Have a child of 2 1/2. She cheated on me once before around April of ’06. I found out by reading her email while she left it open. So I confronted her, we argued, we made up, made promises of what needs to improve.
I found out towards the end of January she cheated on me again.. again an email I read. She begins telling me how I have wronged her and drove her to cheat on me by my past actions, we argue, and I calmly tell her if she can please stay at her friends house.We get back together over the next few days. On Jan 2nd she disappears, flys back home, I don’t find out until late that night. My daughter’s gone. I can’t get her back now, she wants nothing to do with me.. I’ve been verbally abused by her, she’s been arrested twice for domestic abuse but I never pressed charges but all I want is for her to come back a new person with my daughter. I feel lost, depressed. How can I win her back?
She’s seeing a councelor and trying to change, control her anger but doesn’t want to continue with me because of our past. I want to wait for her, don’t want her to date though. I’ve made changes in my life and I know change takes time. I want to take things slow, live apart, but work on us. Her stuff is all over my apartment, my daughters finger paintings are on the fridge. I miss them both so much. I wish I could have full custody of my daughter. The lawyer I talked to says its unlikely because I never pressed charges for the abuse. And its difficult to take away custody from the mother. I wake up with a heavy heart, push away friends, find myself crying with no expression throughout the day. I truly love her. I’ve had three out of my last four LTR ex g/f’s cheat on me. I know its partially my fault. I’m just not sure what it is right now.
I just want her back. I want to wake up with my daughter in between us and not to an empty apartment.
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